Hello everyone. I've decided that now is a good time to move my blog. I've chosen WordPress. I struggled with this site and struggled with it and finally got tired of struggling with it and have started over.
1/21/26
Moving day
1/12/26
Not supposed to be this way
1/5/26
No resolutions
I didn't need to make resolutions this year. I'm on a constant quest to do better, be better, be nicer and spend a little more time relaxing than I did the day before. So far this year, that last one has been a complete fail. Almost all the Christmas decorations are down and the house is getting back to normal. But, there's a pile of Christmas quilts sitting on the sofa next to me that need to be folded and put away. I spent a good bit of the last two weeks in the sewing room, not particularly doing what I should have been, but having fun anyway. I've made some really good food and some not so good food and worked in the yard some and cleaned house a lot...I guess I try to start every year with a clean house, but as fast as I straighten up one place, I make a mess in another. I feel like I spent the whole two weeks in the kitchen, cooking, cleaning, cooking, cleaning...I have dishpan hands. And, I can't wait to retire and do this all the time.
I was un-decorating the tree and started playing a game with myself; what's our strangest ornament. I decided it wasn't the kitchen sink (our tree has everything, even a kitchen sink). It wasn't the shoes and umbrella combo. Not the pink flamingoes or the 3 ballet dancers. Not even the frog prince. We have a Yoda ornament. Don't you? This is a new ornament we found this year. A great addition to the collection.
I picked all the quilting out of the Wedding Ring quilt the other day. There were too many technical errors. I have two black quilts and they are both riddled with technical errors and I hate them both. They are lovely to look at, but I know the back story and can't enjoy either one. I don't need another black quilt that I don't love, so I picked it out and will start over. I can do better. The errors were because of my attitude. I 'had to' finish the quilt. I 'had to' quilt it a certain way, even though it was harder. There was no 'want to' or experimentation going on. No looking forward to sitting down and quilting for the day. There was no 'play' in it. It was all 'work.' So, I took it out. I'd only done about 10%, and anybody that's followed me for long knows I've picked out a lot more than that and started over before. I need to enjoy it. I need to take it slow. And, I need to re-pin baste that corner I was working in and am hoping it doesn't mean I have to re-baste the whole quilt. But, if it does, it does. Too late to change that decision. And, when I start again, I need to quilt small spaces, not try to quilt the whole thing in one go. It's a domestic machine, not a long-arm.
I also did some piecing while I was postponing the pin-basting. I'm still getting moved into a new sewing space and getting tools where they need to be and piecing is a good way to do that. I put together this little Christmas runner...after Christmas. I got on a cutting binge this summer and this is one of the little quilts I cut out. Easy to assemble and got me in the mood.
I wanted to do a block of the month this year. Something with a little challenge. But, I didn't find anything I wanted to do. I found one little shop in a small town that was doing a beautiful BOM. And, while it was a walk in only BOM where you show your completed block to get the fabric for the next block free, I realized I could draft the blocks. They were simple blocks, set on point and the color and dyed fabrics made the finished quilt stunning! For a challenge, I was going to make it half sized and use my batik scraps. But, then I thought 'what am I doing?' I have about 23 projects in my closet where everything is kitted up and maybe I should do one of those if I was so interested in creating another UFO.
I let Rob choose.
He chose a Christmas quilt kit I've had for a long time. I picked it up somewhere for a song. The center is a panel, so easy enough, but when I looked at it closely, I had notes. Let's face it. I can't follow a pattern. Always gotta strike out on my own. I'm not a big fan of the 4 pointed stars. And, the flying geese trees up both sides of the panel felt too busy. So, I did some playing around and came up with a different star that I can squeeze out enough fabric for and drafted new trees that I think will be less distracting and will feel more "Christmas-y."
The way I've kept my sewing studio set up, I've had a quilting machine, a piecing machine and a serger always available. If I got bored while I'm quilting something large, I'd piece something or make a shirt on the other machine. But, now I have two machines that both quilt nicely set up. And, there's no reason I can't take a break every now and then to quilt something small in the middle of quilting something big. There's a ton of small quilts in my studio closet that I could finish in a weekend. When I need a distraction from quilting the Wedding Ring quilt, I hope to start quilting one of them instead of piecing another something new.
But, you just never know when I might start piecing something new. Everybody loves starting something new, right?
So, like, I'm confused. Is it America First, or Venezuela First? Oh, yeah, it's all the money somebody's going to make stealing oil from another sovereign nation. I got it. In Trumpism, you only have to find where the money's going to find the reason for doing anything.
Everybody have a good week. It's back to work for me. Yippee. And, an in-office day tomorrow. what fun.
Lane
12/29/25
Looks like we made it
12/22/25
Christmas week and all through the house
Just think, in a week it will all be over. In a week, the presents will be unwrapped, praised, complained about, boxes will have been played with more than toys, awkward holiday dinners will be over and the dishes will have been washed. And, we'll likely be eating something other than ham...but I don't know, it's a pretty big ham. Merry Cheesemas everybody!
There are only a few decorations left to get pictures of. There are trees everywhere. These two sit next to my desk. My Mom's ceramic tree was all white, so when I saw the little one, it reminded me of her.
I don't think I gave quite enough attention to this little tree. This is the tree with the oldest ornaments on it. These are from my Grandparents and from my parent's first Christmas. Rob found a cute way to display them that doesn't draw attention to their condition, but lets me enjoy a nice display.
And, we can't forget the reason for the season. I've seen a lot of these, but this one used almost the exact same molds that my Grandmother used for the one she made my Mom, except in that one, the baby Jesus can be removed from the manger and our angels are different. I've had mine for 30+ years and my Mom's would likely be 65 years old. And, these are still my favorite.
I took the CRV to the shop last week for regular maintenance and a couple of minor recalls. When the man asked how many miles and I said 3100, he was so skeptical that I started the car to check...3109. And, caught him looking over my shoulder to make sure the old man hadn't forgotten how numbers work. We drive. I swear we do. But, I don't commute, so we mostly drive on weekends. Maintenance was smooth. They gave me a ride home and I took a Waymo back, just for the lark. If you're not familiar, Waymo is driverless. Rob said he had anxiety when I sent him this picture. Couple times when we were approaching a hill, it slowed to a crawl in heavy traffic. Scared the be-cheesus out of me. It took a route through my neighborhood on streets I'd never driven on and I said "you're lost aren't you?" Thankfully, it didn't answer. But, suddenly, we were at a red-light. It had driven there rather than make an unprotected left turn onto a busy street, so my overall rating is that it's overly conservative, but that's not really a bad thing, right? The Uber driver that brought me home crossed 4 lanes or traffic at 70 mph because she'd nearly missed her exit, and that made me feel a lot less safe.
I made my sugar cookies yesterday. Well, actually, I made them last weekend and just got around to baking them yesterday. No frosting this year. I told Rob it was too much. I think it cheesed him off a little, but he was a good sport about it. I keep talking up this year's cake to take his mind off it. Orange flavored. One red layer and one green layer, each cut in half horizontally and alternated red/green/red/green with orange filling and a buttercream frosting as close to white as I can get. Then, I'm going to paint bay leaves with white chocolate and peel off the leaf, leaving me with a white chocolate "petal" for a poinsettia that I'll place on top with some silver balls in the center. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can...
We'll see.
Cheese'nRice, surely I can follow a simple set of instructions.
I made homemade chicken dogfood to try to give Bella something good to eat and she turned her nose up at it. Dottie says she'll be glad to help me out and not let it go to waste. It had a lot of dog friendly veggies and ground chicken and I cooked it in the crockpot, then ran it though the food grinder that attaches to my Kitchenaid. I even tasted it and all it needed was a little salt and pepper and cheese and I could have fed it to Rob.
It's clearly going to be a very cheesy Christmas around here. If you're not having fun this week, try to be cheesy. Remember that by next Monday, it will all be over and in a couple weeks, it will all be back in the box. And, in a few months, it will be time to do it all again...oops, lost my positive spin there didn't I.
Merry Cheesemas Everybody!! And, stick it to the man...you know which one.
12/15/25
10 days and counting
I think Rob is still putting up decorations. Where does he find the time? I'm mostly focused on cleaning and keeping us fed. I spent both weekend mornings in the yard, prepping for freezing temps and yesterday afternoon in the kitchen. I'm ready for a workday so I can just sit down.
Last Sunday, we were in the grocery and I saw these amaryllis on sale for $7.50. I joked that they were probably prepped for Christmas bloom but were going to bloom late, so they were on sale. The poor plant was so dry the spikes looked dusty. Brought it home and gave it some water and a week later, we have blooms. So, maybe they were on sale because they're going to bloom before Christmas. Doesn't matter. They're beautiful! Rob has challenged me to keep the bulb and try to get it to do this again next year. The flowers are about 7" across and there's a second spike coming up. .
We have a fireplace, but it's rarely cold enough to use it. And, if it gets cold enough, it's quick enough to move the quilt and a few things and light a fire.
But Rob goes all out on the mantle. We try to buy a Santa every year to add to the collection, tho they seem to get smaller and smaller out of necessity.
Rob sets up two villages every year. There's the Victorian village and Retroville, which was a limited edition collectable village from JoAnn's many years ago. He's short one piece and it's so hard to find that we haven't been able to get it for him.
12/8/25
Decorating and then some
We really need to work out this greenhouse/holiday thing better. Right now, we're doing all the things we do to get ready for Christmas. But, we're also putting the garden to bed, setting up greenhouses and moving tender plants in anticipation of a freeze in the next week or so. Yes, I realize some of you are reading this in front of a fire on a cozy, white winter's day...but in TX, the grass still needs mowing.
I spent both weekend mornings in the yard, getting plants ready to go in the greenhouse. I've learned this lesson. I can't just drag them in and expect everything to be fine. I have to clean them up, take out dead leaves and branches and take the fall leaves out of the pots. If I don't, I get mold in the greenhouses that can take years to recover from.
We've been doing our usual "it looks like Santa and his reindeer exploded in here" level decorating.
This is the Li Bien tree. The ornaments are theoretically hand painted from the inside. The older ones probably are. Anyway, we'd go shopping at Pier 1 close to Christmas when they were on sale, sometimes buying 5-6 a year for us, and we gave them as gifts. When Pier 1 closed, World Market started to carry them, but they're not the same and they're a lot more expensive and they don't go on sale as far as we can tell, so the collecting is probably done. They make a nice tree, tho. But, we forgot to change the quilt behind them to the Christmas quilt. Oops! On top of the china cabinet, there's a small wire tree hung with vintage ornaments from my parent's first holiday together and from my Grandparents.
This is the swag that hangs across the living room ceiling. Every year, I say I'm not going to put it up and every year, I do.
12/1/25
Back to work
11/24/25
Thanksgiving week
Like most US households, we have a turkey thawing in the fridge. It was easier this year to get a small bird and I don't know why, but the butterball was on sale for about the same price as the store brand, so we upgraded. The menu is written up and soon I'll assign start times to everything and later, I'll assign casserole dishes. The goal this year is smaller amounts, sometimes cutting recipes in half, sometimes breaking them into two casserole dishes and freezing one to pull out for Christmas, which has a similar side dish menu. It always seems like there's so much waste at Thanksgiving (even though we waste very little food) and there's no need for that. Sydney is bringing the pumpkin pie. Last year, I gave her our traditional pie plate, our traditional mixing bowl (same as the one featured in the cookbook photo), and a copy of the vintage cookbook the recipe comes from...and told her I was not planning to ever make a pumpkin pie again. From now on, that's her job. If I need a pie off-holiday, I'll call her.
We love pumpkin pie and I really should make it more often. But, I also love apple pie and chocolate pie and peach pie, pecan pie and cherry pie and...well, you get the picture.
I've learned better than to try to feed Rob turkey for a week, so I splurged and bought a roast. And, it was quite a splurge. Over the last week, I've been reading about why beef is so expensive. People don't think enough about how fragile our food supply is. Another example is cranberry sauce. I pointed out that our can was 2.50 this year, way up from last year and commented that it was probably because there was no one to pick the berries. He said a machine does that, but while I continued grocery shopping, he looked it up and turns out it's not pick the berries, it's a shortage of workforce to can them that's affecting the cost. Anyway, this year I plan to make all the traditional dishes because I can, and because I may not be able to next year.
Eat, drink, and be merry...
I'm always looking for new ways to use my spaces and have recently rearranged furniture in my sewing room and yoga/music room. Is it better? Yes, it's a more efficient use of the space. But, mostly, it's change. I crave change. The unofficial motto at work as long as I've been there has been 'the only constant is the change.' And, that has carried over into my personal life. Rob grew up with constant change, so he craves stability. I grew up with an oppressive level of stability and I crave change. We are who we are. Anyway, some things in the house that should be in the garage now have places out there, and a whole lot of stuff has gone to dumpsters and Goodwill and it feels like there's some space to breathe. I swear, this is going somewhere.
It's resulted in some new places for plants. I've had this little gossip bench (phone table) for many years. Many, many years and it came from a couple of friends that sold all their stuff and moved to California. I wonder what happened to them. Anyway, there was a little corner that it fit perfectly, but we decided to do something else there and it came into the yoga room and sat there with nothing on it, or when it had something on it, it wasn't the right thing. I used it to create this plant emergency room. There's a grow light in the lamp and it's on a timer and the sickest of the houseplants are there. It was an idea I had on a lark in Lowe's one day when we were shopping for lightbulbs. And, it worked out. I had my first graduate the other day that moved into a more visible place. It's not fully recovered yet, but it's not dying anymore and has put on a good bit of new growth, so that's a win.
When I moved furniture around in the office/studio, I created this plant station in front of a sunny window. Some of these plants won't like it in summer, but they'll love being here this winter.
And, yesterday, I cleaned in the greenhouse (yes, this is clean). I had to so I could work on those two pencil cactus in the back right corner. Pencil cactus love it here. Right now, we have 5, one 7' tall, one 5' tall and three 3' tall. We started with the big one in a 2" pot, 25 years ago. They've been in tall slender lightweight plastic pots for years but have gotten so big that the slightest breeze knocks them over, so we bought larger, heavier pots with wider bases. To help with the transition, I wanted to get them in the greenhouse where I can tie the tree to the rafters where it will be steady as the roots get used to the new pot and the soil compacts. I sure won't need it tipping over in the greenhouse this winter.
Bella on a good day. She had a couple bad days last week and I was pretty sure it was time, then the next morning, she attacked her breakfast like it was going to try to escape and put weight back on and got back to normal and wanted to be walked. Like Lazarus, y'all. She may look sad, but she was feisty enough to both lick me on the nose and bite my hand this morning, before she peed down my pants leg on the way out the door. (the things old people get away with...)
Today is my only "work day" this week. I'll work my butt off the rest of the week, but it's not the work I get paid to do. Sydney's the only one coming, so I'm not quite sure what I'm doing all this housecleaning for. Being prepared, I guess. I have some back yard chores to do to give us a better view, and some inside chores to do, and then Wednesday is prep and Thursday is cooking, Friday I'll put away dishes and decorate the first Christmas tree. Saturday is swag day and Sunday is big Christmas tree day. Rob has already put the lights on the outside of the house. Other people put theirs up and he couldn't let us fall behind. But now, what's he going to do while I cook on Thursday. That's traditionally been how he stays out of my hair. I might have to teach him to knit...
Everybody have a great week! I'm intentionally not focusing on negative thoughts...but what about that Lindsay Halligan, y'all? I'm glad I'm better at my job than she is at hers...wait, is that wrong? No, it's right. I'm glad she's so bad at hers, which makes me even prouder to be good at mine.
Eat, drink, be merry, be kind. Be thoughtful. Be uplifting. And do your best to ignore cousin Durwood, who you know is going to be an asshole at your dinner table. Because he is every year. But, you love him, so you keep inviting him. And, on Black Friday every year, you wonder why.
Lane
11/17/25
Fortress of solitude
Okay, last week was unusual. There was a thing at work and I took a couple days off. By the time Rob got home from visiting his Mom, the house was very cleaned up and I'd done some pre-holiday reorg and now, it's time to start another week. And, they were playing holiday music in the grocery store and it's just too early y'all...way too early.
Last week, I planted a fig tree in the garden to replace one of the crabapples that we lost. And, somehow, I didn't manage to take a picture. I didn't even take a picture of the ginormous hole I had to dig that I was so proud of. I've got to get better at taking pictures of the interesting things that happen...like being able to dig a ginormous hole at 63.
I did some laundry last week. I do laundry so rarely I have to study the machine a little before I hit start to make sure everything is set up right. I put the dry towels on the sofa and forgot about Dottie's love of warm laundry. She didn't waste any time getting in the middle of it and going to sleep.
And, speaking of Dottie, in the latest furniture move, the chair that used to sit next to my desk got moved into the 'music room.' Rob took these pictures and narrated for Dottie.
"Rob, this is my chair."
"Lane, why is my chair in here. This is not where it belongs"






















































